REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD KEEP YOUR PLANS AND PRIVACIES PERSONAL

It's of a truth that the world came into existence by the spoken word. This shows how powerful our word could be and due to this, it's always advisable to tame our tongue. It is often said that "not every clothes are expected to be dried under the sun." So, we're expected to be confidential in some aspect of our life because "the power of life and death lies in our tongue."

It's quite a pity that many individuals have used their mouth to kill and bury themselves unknowingly. Though it's often said that a problem shared is half-solved despite this, it's important you know the kind of pesonality of person(s) you're revealing your mind or sharing thoughts with before it later leads to regret at the longrun. There are conditions one needs to lookout for when dealing with sensitive or personal situations as we are different and diverse in thoughts snd otherwise. The essense of this is to help regulate the level of what is been said to avoid undesirable repercussions along the line. The question of what should be in mind before sgaring your personal thought or plans with someone include;

1. What kind of personality trait does the receptor have in person
2. Is he/she a person that can handle issues confidentially
3. Is the person reserved in speech?
4. What kind of friends does he/she keeps?
5. What is the level of his/her maturity?

WHAT SORT OF PERSONALITY TRAIT DOES THE RECEPTOR HAVE?
It is usually said that it's more better to keep your secret safe with a melancholy or choleric person than a phlegmatic or sanguine. Choleric individuals are said to be more disciplined and principled, carrying the gene of emotional and psychological maturity. Most of them are leaders in diverse organisations in executive posts. They're more experienced and skillful in what they do. Though not all cholerics could be reserved when personal issues are discussed with them. So there's usually a need to filter what you wanna say before displaying it to their hearing.

IS HE/SHE A PERSON THAT CAN HANDLE ISSUES CONFIDENTIALLY?
This is the major aspect one need to be on the look out for in people before comfiding in them. Talkatives will definitely never keep your privacies as confidential but rather spill the milk whenever you ain't in good term with them. Beside this, some may wish to holdon to your secret for a while and later decide to blackmail you for one selfish reason or the other. So be wise when dealing with such a personality.

IS THE PERSON RESERVED IN SPEECH
An unreserved kind of a person is a no way to related with. He/She is always eager to talk at all times instead of preserving the energy for something meaningful. So getting etangled with such sort of a person is definitely toxic to your well being.

WHAT KIND OF FRIENDS DOES HE/SHE KEEPS?
When you become a longterm friend with a gossiper get ready to become a gossiper too as well. Let gossiping friends know that you're never cooperating with them because you can never be a party to this sort of undesirable lifestyle and by this they'll know where you stand.

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF HIS/HER MATURITY?
Maturity here is neither referring to Age, Social class or affiliations but the state of the mind. A person with a low state of mind discusses about "people" while a person with a positive mindset discusses good possibilities, values and productivity. A person of "people" mindset is a no go area when it comes to discussing your privacies or expectations because your plans and privacies can never be safe in such a person's hand. A child can never handle sensitive issues like how an adult will. So beware.

In conclusion, it's better to give time to study someone before revealing your plans and privacies to them. Moreover, there's a tendency that your plans you discussed may never materialize later on as "there's always an equal and opposite reaction to every action" in life as stated by the third law of Newton. So be reserved about that good plan or progress you're expecting. Never be too fast to reveal expose your expectations before your result. Be wise and be careful of the kind of people arpumd you and information you share with them because you never can tell who wants your progress or downfall before the time of your realisation.

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