Sorry is among the feelings that people do say when they feel to be wrong. I came up with the idea to share about sorry because a lot of people have different feelings about the word sorry. I regard sorry to be very important in our daily life. This is because sorry plays a very significant role in controlling our emotions and feelings when we feel to be angry over current or old issues. When we encounter issues with our fellow humans, the word sorry can easily solve the situation.
We must understand that they're people who fail to see the word sorry as a good one. When people offend such people and say sorry to them, they normally feel cheated and see their offenders as bad as anything. The only thing that can make such people feel good is for their offenders to accept that they're wrong and never to repeat such actions. Some of the people who feel that their offenders should not say sorry to them believe that if they accept the word sorry from their offenders, they'll repeat the same negative action. When they repeat such a negative action and say sorry, they always expect to be forgiven when they'll say sorry.
Through my research and interrogation with a few people, I was able to understand why some people feel that sorry is never to be said to them and I'll never blame their actions. This is because some people say sorry when they do something willingly. After offending their counterpart willingly and saying sorry to them. They may be forgiven. But the problem with such international offenders is that when they're forgiven by the people they offend. They'll surely repeat such negative actions and expect to be forgiven. People should learn how to live with others instead of causing harm and expecting to say sorry in order to be forgiven.
Do you know that they're people who also find it difficult to say sorry even when they're wrong? Such people feel that sorry is everything in the world and for that saying sorry to people shouldn't be so. Instead of some people saying sorry to their offenders, they prefer to be punished. I don't think we shouldn't say sorry to people we offend. This is because if we don't, such action can only worsen a situation instead of resolving it. If you're the kind of person who finds it difficult to say sorry even when you're wrong, you must also understand they're people who are also difficult to forgive except you say sorry to them.
Honestly, I use myself as an example expecting people to feel and say sorry when they're wrong. I always feel very bad when people offend me. But when they seem to realize their mistakes and say sorry to me. I always have no option but to accept their sorry. But we must be very careful with some people saying sorry after committing an offense.
In conclusion, we should be able to see sorry as a means of settling issues. We should always feel guilty when we hear the word sorry. If we can say sorry to people, others will also say the same to us. This can make life more simple and better.
I meet a guy who was boastful about his inability to say sorry to people and for that reason he had broken up with several ladies, being able to say sorry is very necessary and important if not, we will loose out on so many life vital relationships.
Wow, I agree with you. Sorry is very important in keeping a relationship. I and my wife used to say sorry to each other whenever we are wrong.
Aprender a incorporar el perdón en nuestro diario vivir es sumamente importante.
El perdón es una lleve mágica incluso perdonarnos a nosotros mismos por acciones, sentimientos, palabras que hacemos o cometemos creyendo que lo hicimos bien y la otra persona no lo ve así.
Saludos
Lo sentimos es la forma más fácil de recibir el perdón. Debemos aprender a admitir que lo sentimos.
The rewards earned on this comment will go directly to the people( @mercmarg ) sharing the post on Twitter as long as they are registered with @poshtoken. Sign up at https://hiveposh.com.