Avoid Cockblocking At All Cost (REALTIME Ongoing Case Study)

I'm typing this in a dark room at my friend's house trying to not make ANY noise because he has a girl over and we have done the field research. Women are very easily spooked so we both agreed that it would throw the situation out of wack if she knew someone else was in the house.

So yeah.....I'm literally hiding, not making any noise, as I type this blog. If I have to pee I have two large bottles I will piss in if I have to. What can I say...I'm a team player!

There wasn't a great solution to the problem because there was nowhere I could go and just be on the computer at a library or something and I just got into the LA Area so I wasn't able to really make a lot of contacts yet.

We both agreed the best solution was for me to literally hide in this room staying silent and not turning on any lights while he hangs out with this chick. This is the second time he has hung out with her and they seem like they vibe well together based on what I'm hearing as I sit here silently trying not to type too loud. lol

I even put a blanket at the bottom of the door so no lights will flicker from my laptop screen encase they walk by this door. We can't tip her off that someone else is in the house.

I have studied a lot of guys game and my friend has upper tier game. One of the things he does is cooks for women and they LOVE IT. That isn't really part of my game but this has worked very well for him. Oftentimes women will tell him that no guy has ever cooked for them. This is a great way for him to get them back to the house. He will say, "How about you come over and I will cook fettuccine alfredo for us."

Hot meal, Hot Tub, The Hottest Movie on Netflix.......Things are heating up out there 🤣

Another elite part of his game is all his voice impressions. He is Jester maxed when it comes to that and the women can't stop laughing at his impressions and jokes. He also has elite texting ability to keep these women engaged.

What a lot of the older generation doesn't understand is that the game has turned into about a 95/5 situation. 95% of women are only interested in that upper 5% of men. The situation has gotten so bad in these countries like the United States that very few guys are having any sort of success. I have witnessed this first hand many many times and this is actually a big part of my theory of how a lot of places can't find enough help to fill positions because there is no pot of gold at the end of the rainbow for the mass majority of men. There used to be a time when an average guy could get his ducks in a row and women would pay attention to them. Now women have become so addicted to rejecting guys and constantly re-qualifying them that your mass majority of guys can end up going years without ever even kissing a woman even if they are trying to set up dates and talking to girls. It's insane.

How Does A Guy With Over 12,000 matches on Bumble Not Find Something Long Term?

So my friend has this insane amount of matches and he is on other apps as well but a common trend that he runs into and also myself and others in our friend group is that even though on paper we should have leverage over what we would consider the upper tier of women there are so many issues why no one is having success with that set of women. And even if you do gain a little bit of traction oftentimes these modern women lose interest pretty fast if they think they have you figured out. That is why I remain a huge mystery to these girls so they can't never see every facet. It is like they keep trying to turn the gem stone to see the other parts but can never get the full picture. They will often come up with some sort of assessment that doesn't make sense eventually.

There is simply too many options for women these days and it is 100 Times easier for a woman to have sex than it is for a man. They get tens of thousands of matches on dating apps and are getting hit up non stop on Instagram. Their heads are spinning and they have more power and influence than a Queen would have 300 years ago. It would certainly be hard for that to not go to someone's head.

Am I complaining?

Not really. I'm more stating the facts about the modern dating environment. I have both been a benefactor and a victim of the modern situation. For the most part guys would look at me and some of my friends and be somewhat envious of some of the situations we have pulled off and some of the ridiculous situations we have found ourselves in. Our game was allowed to continue to develop over the years. We are always going to do things that have been successful previously and overtime you are able to replicate that over and over to develop a system that is far better than the game we might have had in high school or college.

In a future blog I will talk more about what me and my friends feel are the premier set of women that we could really be with long term. The thing is those women oftentimes don't end up with anyone through their 20's and then they are ending up as the growing statistic of 30+ women who have never been married and don't have kids. They are going to be like Lolo Jones. On the verge of 40, never married, no kids, and frustrated.

Lolo Jones is a good looking woman. The clear issue is she has dismissed thousands upon thousands of men over the last 20+ years. Like no one is good enough type attitude and that is the way the mass majority of women act these days. It is the sad reality that we are dealing with and it will only get worse. For most guys in the United States they would likely have to leave this country and go to a 2nd or 3rd world country to gain any traction with a more premier set of women. Anyone I have ever talked to who went to Columbia said it was awesome. The women were way fitter and way hotter on average and they went there and weren't invisible. In this country a lot of men are forced to date down so far to have an ongoing relationship / marriage that the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

How's My Friend Doing

It's after 1 and they are still laughing as I sit in the dark and type this. Will this girl be the one? Likely not....my friend is into these fitness chicks. These Insta hottie type chicks and I don't think this girl falls into that category.

Do you guys feel like the dating scene has turned into the 95/5 rule in your country?