Your Grandfather taught you some good lessons :)
Of course, it's terrible to hear people losing loved ones, for any reason. This is life though isn't it? We arrive, we do what we do, and we depart.
The fear and control, beamed to us via that lovely box in the corner, (I don't own one) is just disgusting. Hence the link to the timeless Rage Against The Machine lyrics in the post. Strike fear, control, suppress, take your privileges', do what we say, and have a nice day!